Why I prefer being a blogger vs an influencer

Reader, spring finally arrived and I've been walking everywhere, planning my European summer, just feeling lighter.

Also I made the mistake of scrolling through my old Instagram reels yesterday and now I'm cringing so hard I might never recover. πŸ˜…

I was scrolling through old photos from Bali and accidentally stumbled into my old Instagram reels.

And oh my god. The discomfort on my face. πŸ˜‚

Like I could SEE how uncomfortable I was trying to film myself, trying to look natural on camera, trying to perform whatever vibe I thought I needed to have.

The amount of energy I was putting into looking like I wasn't trying.

It's actually painful to watch now (lol).

Then I looked at what I was doing in that exact moment - sitting on my couch in my spring sweater, scrolling through photos, no makeup, hair messy, nobody watching me.

And I realized... this is exactly why I switched to writing.

Because even when I'm bored, even when I'm scrolling mindlessly, even when I'm doing absolutely nothing productive - I never have to perform it.

I can just... exist. πŸ˜„

I don't have to turn on a camera when I'm feeling emotional.

I don't have to film my morning routine or my workspace or my outfit of the day.

I can process everything privately and write about it later if I want to.

Or not at all.

That privacy is everything to me.

I built this whole business around never having to perform when I don't feel like it. Around being able to disappear when life gets messy and come back when I'm ready. πŸ’…πŸΌ

I can sit here in my messy spring sweater with coffee and natural light and just write.

And somehow that grows my dream business more than all those uncomfortable reels ever did.

When I look at my income now versus when I was forcing myself to be on camera constantly... it's not even close.

Writing wins.

Blog posts I wrote months ago still bring me email subscribers every week. Emails I send bring me income.

And I never have to feel that discomfort of posting videos nonstop.

So, If you've been feeling pressure to make reels, to perform your life because everyone else is doing it... you really don't have to.

Writing works. You can build this and keep your privacy and actually feel GOOD doing it. β˜€οΈ

I'm living proof.

πŸ’­ If blogging and writing heartfelt emails like these sounds like your path too - Her Dream Blog Playbook shows you how to do it in less than 90 days.

"I can build my dream life without performing it."

πŸ’…πŸΌ My latest blog post - How One Threads Post Got Me 100 Email Subscribers (And Proved Blogging Isn’t Dead)

See you next week gorgeous,

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